Fatherhood Rewritten: Why am I rewriting it? Hi! My name is Vilzu, and I am on a journey to become the father I never had. This blog will follow my journey from a kid surviving through stormy childhood, to being the best possible dad for my daughter. I am just a few days away from turning 30. I live in a small one-bedroom apartment with my beautiful wife, my grumpy cat and of course with my 2,5-year-old daughter. She is the most important thing in my life. I hope that writing about my past and tracking my own fatherhood will help me be the best I can be. That's what they deserve, the best. That’s why I started this blog. This is my first blog, so I apologize the quality of writing. It will get better, I promise. Thank you for joining me on this journey! Parenting with a broken childhood During pregnancy I really began to think about my own childhood. I started to realize that I never had a role model when I was a kid. I started to ask myself: What makes a good fathe